Are we being to lenient towards people who possess such destroying characteristics?

To allow them to freely walk around a menace to society and an embarrassment to themselves and fellow human beings.
Unaware of the dangers of themselves and quite often with the way these cases are dealt with others also unaware of exactly what the person has been to court about if indeed the public are to find out at all..

It seems that unless newspapers are to tell us who has done what we would never know at all.
More often than not the papers are not aware of these cases so unless reporters are to sit in court to find out what to print we would be blissfully unaware that Joe Bloggs two doors away was in court yesterday for sexual offenses toward a child..

Would we still look at Joe the same??

I think not but more often than not the sentences can be somewhat short to say the least for heinous crime.

As regards the man spoken about in this post he has been given clear instructions upon leaving prison in 2005 yet has managed to stay in a relationship with a woman with children,
So how does this work then when given an indefinite ban from unsupervised contact are we to believe the couple address this on a              DAY TO DAY BASIS.
Again I very much doubt it.
So you say the mother must trust him with the children surely so thats ok.
But as they say no smoke without fire.
Who is really in control of this situation?
Thats a good question!

Upon hearing of Gilbanks crimes surprisingly enough from the local newspaper I did my research into the individual which lovely for me lives down the bloody road only to find out all this extra information which I have shared on here.

The reason you may ask why on earth he has just had a two year suspended sentence for braking his order again is anyone’s guess.
Now its my job to keep my kids inside or failing that follow them around to make sure they don’t go near him.

Oh yes he fits the bill.. Very helpful apparently you would never guess to look at him honest

I think once you are aware then you think how didn’t I see it before.

But the fiancée who has moved two doors away obviously must think something of him even with social services round every verse end her way to deal with them is simply ” get out of my house ”

This is society isn’t it fantastic how ignorant people are.

Did I mention why can’t they put him elsewhere.


pedophile behavioral patterns.

Pedophiles can be anyone — old or young, rich or poor, educated or uneducated, non-professional or professional, and of any race. However, pedophiles often demonstrate similar characteristics, but these are merely indicators.

The pedophile often seeks out shy, handicapped, and withdrawn children, or those who come from troubled homes or under privileged homes. He then showers them with attention, gifts, taunting them with trips to desirable places like amusement parks, zoo’s, concerts, the beach and other such places.

Pedophiles work to master their manipulative skills and often unleash them on troubled children by first becoming their friend, building the the child’s self esteem. They may refer to the child as special or mature, appealing to their need to be heard and understood then entice them with adult type activities that are often sexual in content such as x-rated movies or pictures. They offer them alcohol or drugs to hamper their ability to resist activities or recall events that occurred.
Many times pedophiles will develop a close relationship with a single parent in order to get close to their children. Once inside the home, they have many opportunities to manipulate the children — using guilt, fear, and love to confuse the child. If the child’s parent works, it offers the pedophile the private time needed to abuse the child.
Pedophiles can be classified in several ways. Pedophilia can be characterized as either exclusive or non-exclusive. Exclusive pedophiles are attracted only to children. They show no interest in sexual partners who are not prepubescent children. This desire prolongs even when they are not in the presence of children. Non-exclusive pedophiles are attracted to both adults and children. A large percentage of male pedophiles are homosexual or bisexual in orientation to children, meaning they are attracted to male children or both male and female children.

Many people assume that only males are pedophiles. However, case studies on pedophilia have demonstrated that female pedophilia does exist (Chow, 2002). Although this is a rare phenomenon, females who meet the DSM-IV criteria for pedophiles display similar cognitive distortions to that of males, such as irrational thoughts. Some differences, however, do exist among males and females. Females who exhibit pedophilia tend to suffer from psychiatric disorders or substance abuse problems. Also, there is a higher correlation between sexual abuses as a child with females compared to males.

One factor that works against the pedophile is that eventually the children will grow up and recall the events that occurred. Often pedophiles are not brought to justice until such time occurs and victims are angered by being victimized and want to protect other children from the same consequences.

Steps to prevention..

* Use every opportunity to develop your child’s sense of self-worth.

* Impress upon your children that nothing should be kept secret from you, especially about their interactions with an adult.

* Give your children love and affection. Sex offenders target those who lack attention from parents. Commit yourself to spend time with your children.

* most simple effective way is tell them not to keep secrets if they been instructed to do so from there parents.

* childen should be aware of the world as it is.